Friday, November 26, 2010

Black Friday - the TRUE "Reason for the Season"?

The late autumn and early winter has always been one of my favorite times of year.  The warm glow of the sparkling lights which pop up just about everywhere this time of year always serve to lift up my spirit and bring on some much needed cheer!  In fact – just about the only thing I don’t like about this time of year is the proverbial “Christmas rush”. It always seems that no matter who you are talking to, people have about twice as many things to do – from shopping for presents, to visiting friends and family, to planning celebrations – then there are hours in the day.  This hustle and bustle, of course, is just about the exact opposite of what the Church is encouraging us to do liturgically at this time of year: rather then the bright colors of red, white and green, the colors of Advent are a somber purple.  In place of a myriad of bright lights, the Advent Wreath’s glow emanates from only four candles.  Instead of mad rushes and impending deadlines, the words that Scripture speak of at this time are ones of longing and anticipation.  When compared with the frenetic pace of today’s “holiday season”, in its liturgies, the Church’s wisely reminds us that these weeks before Christmas should not be “rushed” but instead should serve as a time of preparation for the coming of – not Santa Claus – but instead of the Prince of Peace.
 
Reminders like these are increasingly important for all of us – especially since it is so easy to get caught up in all of the seductive hoopla that surrounds the holiday.  With Advent beginning in just days, many people would not identify with the term “First Monday of Advent” as quickly as they would with another: “Cyber Monday” – a marketing term first created by the National Retail Federation to denote the Monday immediately following the more famous “Black Friday” – itself the name for the Friday that follows Thanksgiving Day in the United States, and which officially starts the Christmas “Shopping Season” when retailers see their balance sheets go from ”red” to “black”. Both of these days have little or nothing to do with spiritually preparing one’s self for the birthday of the Prince of Peace (which ironically is the reason that these two days exist in the first place); instead, they are about “helping Santa” materially fill the space under the tree with more and bigger gifts. That what was originally the season of Advent has been transmogrified into an over-marketed, commercialized, $450 billion orgy of consumption needs no further demonstration – other than the fact that it has now creeped into Thanksgiving Day itself - many stores (including Kmart here in Waynesboro) opening on Thanksgiving!  How terrible is that?  To take people away from their families - removing any opportunity to rest and give thanks to God with family and friends.  It's terrible!

You know, it really doesn’t have to be this way, and saying no to the over-consumption that today marks the run-up to Christmas does not require a Grinch-like renunciation of any gift giving at all.

As Advent gets underway, we have to be careful - yes there is lots to do to prepare for Christmas, but don't forget what this season of Advent is really all about - preparing for Christ!  Your parish family is trying to help by offering Sunday Vespers every Sunday at 7pm during Advent and Christmas - to help us stay focused on "Christ our Light" instead of the "Blue Light Special" of the day.  The Church's advise to each of us?  Slow down a little, experience Advent and prepare yourself spiritually for the coming of the Prince of Peace – after all, let’s not forget that His birthday really is the “reason for the season.”

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